Perhaps I close myself off too much. I've heard that close bonds form when two people are open to each other, but I'm a one way street. I listen, I give advice, but I can't ask for it in return or offer my own feelings. Similarly, I let my relationships slip through my fingers. I don't keep in touch, I act elusive, and I can't form any lasting bonds. Friends that I used to have made new ones, and I was lost in time. They like to see me, but I'm like a distant memory. It hurts every once in a while, but I have no one to blame but myself. Few, if any, have ever made it through my walls, and they don't like to stay within them. Maybe people just don't think I value friendships when I don't contact them or seem to care when lapses of time have passed without conversing; I often wonder whether I am simply incapable of it. Are there people in the world, like me, who just can't form sincere friendships? Am I just too much of a flake to be considered a treasured companion? I offer light entertainment briefly before I once again disappear into the wind. Who wants a friend who comes and goes like the rain?
I'm not reliable, I'm never constant, and I'm always running. Even now I'm looking into graduate programs across the country, and I can tell you that I will move without regret or turning back. I won't miss people, just like I won't value the new ones that I meet. Life is always changing and I never seem to stop moving. I may never be a bridesmaid, and I'm okay with that. But I don't think I'd even make the guest list. I can assure you that I'm really not talking about weddings. Or rather, I am, but that's not the point. I selfishly wish for a friend who would call me just to hear my voice. And here I sit, alone in my dark room, knowing that I could change but seemingly lost upon how to do it.
We were born into this world as single beings, and perhaps for some of us, that is how we were meant to stay.